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I got an email that said:
Hello Erica,

I felt strange that even an opinionated person like you haven't even expressed your views about Cecilia Cheung's interview.

I know it's only the first part of the interview, but i felt so disgusted by her publicity stunt, and using her gender, her family & that little child as a tool for sympathy. for this 20 minutes she's didn't even make an apology to the public.

Feels like she doesn't even know what she has done wrong, and the show host didn't even ask!....

da di da di da di daaaa...


I replied:
what has she done wrong?

He replied:
是當「玉女」身份,私下的男歡女愛?
婚前性生活?
拍床照?
照片中,露骨的自慰動作?
照片跟社會一廂情願的藝人形象/偶像榜樣不配合?
訂婚後,繼續跟第三者來往,並發生性關係?
自稱「天不怕地不怕」,却好怕自己所作的事影響到謝家?
身為一個成年人,沒盡本份保護自己?
高估了數碼科技能夠保護自己能力?
還是她對陳冠希的信任,甚至將保護自己的全責交給他?

這次判她有錯的不是公眾,而是她自己。
但她由始至終,都沒解釋清楚她錯什麼。


I replied:
她從不是玉女。
她荒淫是她的事。
照片的事,是她蠢,不是她錯。
影響到謝家是謝家的事,不關大眾事。
什麽訂婚前後,都是傳媒說的,你又不是謝霆鋒。
男方承諾過照片不會被任何人看到,那當然是男方的責任。
她錯在蠢,錯信人,所以她對自己生氣,懲罰自己。
但對公眾?錯在哪?